Saturday, August 22, 2015

What life is all about..

On the first blog i said that i will post here all what matters in my life. And here's a Big Little thing that's been going on in my life lately. I GOT BABY#2! Baby Naomi is here 20 days ago and she is SO EXHAUSTING AND CONFUSING! yes you've read this right. Exhausting and confusing. Don't ever think that you will have a newborn baby and life will be roses n chocolate. No No. it definitely takes time to get to know your new baby. It takes time to build a relationship with this baby. You both are different personalities. Her needs are not your needs and her way of communication isn't anything that you have experience at. So it takes time for you both to get to know each other and to be very clear here this goes for both parents not only the mother. You too daddy will have to make effort to get familiar with your new baby. And in fact, with ur wife after all the things that she's been going through! All this for sure defines her up in a very sharp way and makes it difficult for you both to communicate in this time.
So hang in there , your life is taking a huge milestone now.


Later here i will be talking more about parenting and specially what we (egyptians) are very scared to talk about. Which is how to love my baby who i don't actually have love feelings for. And how to overcome the baby blues and all the shock of the delivery and of being totally responsible for a little person who can't communicate his needs in anyway that i know.

Parenting is tough
So tough
But i guess it's worth it :)

Xoxo